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Saturday 13 March 2010
I don't know how I feel about it, since they've been married for so long, what do I do??They were more alike then they thought. It doesn't really change much, they love you just the same. That's a very hard thing to tell someone so I would just support them and always remember that they will appreciate that more than anything. Both of them? Oh honey, congratulations, that's like every gay mans dream parents! You're so lucky. All you have to do is to love them, in a platonic/parental way mind you. Just because they are gay doesn't mean they stop being your parents. No funny business within the family still applies.There's nothing U can do ! But if it's any consolation, you're certainly not to blame !!There is nothing you can actually fo... you'll need to accept it, sooner or later. Of course it is shocking right now, but you'll learn to cope with it. It is quite strange they've been married so long without being sexually attracted to each other, or at least no that much. Probably you should ask them, just introduce the topic as if it was a personal curiosity, like "I wonder". Ask the parent you feel closer to first, make sure you don't sound accusing or polemic. Or they will feel like they are being told off.
There's nothing you can do about it. It's their lives and they realized that they were not who they thought they were. Some people who are secretly gay and unable to deal with it get married in order to convince themselves that they are "normal."try talking to them and ask how do they feel about the situation, as it's not easy for you, it's also not easy for them#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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