I love him, he and his girlfriend hate me, What to do?

Posted on Saturday 13 March 2010

  • Long story short, i like this guy but he has a girlfriend ( a big scary one)
    and im pretty sure he knows i do.
    2 days ago i was walking up the stairs, and i usually see them everyday.
    I walked passed them and he just grabbed her and started hugging her and kissing her neck and blahh blahh blahh
    and my friends said it was his way of telling me ''back off i have a girlfriend''


    yesterday i walked up the stairs and his girlfriend started making fun of me and he laughed, and i ended up missing the bus so when i waited for my mom to come get me, i had to wait in a room with the both of them, and he kept staring at me and she just kept talking and laughing to him. And every time he sees me he just stares at me.
    idk, But i Still like him so much!
    even though him and his girlfriend hate me. what do i do?

    when hes not around i think about what an asshole he is
    but when i see him i melt into a puddle ;[


  • You're friends are right. He is not interested in you and wants you to know that not only is he NOT interested but he is in love with someone else. If he and his girlfriend are making fun of you then he is a jerk and you need to get over him and move on. Check out the nerdy guys, they will probably be computer programmers or IT specialists someday and will be making the big bucks.


  • I think, you need to get over it dear. He's not worth your time, just find someone better looking and flaunt him in his face. :)


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  • It's time for you to stop living in whatever fantasy world you're living in and face the truth. They both obviously know how you feel and are having fun kicking your feelings around. He has made it clear he's not interested in you. Get a life beyond this loser and his mate.


  • get over hym i kno its guna be hard bt wen u meet someone else u going to realize wat da hell were u thinkin. so gud lck dnrt look at hym anymore and dnt stress dat heffa


  • You don't love him, you have a silly crush.

    Back off and leave them alone. Ignore it all. Don't look at him or her, and I mean it! It will just cause more s***.


  • darling, have some more respect for yourself! if he isnt even giving you the time of day much less being mean to you, move on! You dont want someone like that in your life anyways... more fish in the sea!


  • FORGET THE IDIOT. You are worth way too much to be treated like that. And the fact that his girlfriend harass you IN FRONT of him shows how little he cares about you. Don't waste your breath on him. In fact, he should be the one grovelling for the chance to talk to someone like you. Ok?

    And second, when you see him, IGNORE HIM. If you have an Ipod, when your friends aren't around, play any song you like and blast it loud. Zone out. Don't give him the time of day.

    Granted it's going to be hard at first, but YOU have to do that. It's simply your way of telling her that you're not interested in that fool.

    Oh, and the time you walked by them and he grabbed his girlfriend in front of you...your friends were right. He was telling you to back off his pathetic butt. You can do so MUCH better.



  • Say bye bye


  • Where's your self respect, self love, dignity!?! He is taken, that alone should be cause for you to leave him alone. And don't let them make a fool out of you like that and don't make yourself look desperate. You melt b/c he's probably cute and maybe it's b/c he is something you can't have, that's it. He is being mean to you girl, wake up, love yourself more then that stupid boy! There's probably anther boy that likes you that and you're too busy drooling over dumb a$$ to see who really likes you. :)


  • You should get the message and leave the two of them alone. I hate to say it but you are being pretty self-centered here. Consider the feelings of this guy you're crushing on. Do you realize what kind of position you are putting him in? Do you understand how his girlfriend must feel to have you trying to swoop in? How would you like someone to do that with your boyfriend?

    I know that it's hard to give up on someone you care about but trust me, things will work out for the better. If you and your crush are meant to be together, it'll happen. Just back off and focus on yourself for now. Do what makes you happy. Who knows, maybe an even better guy will come around who will completely take your mind off this insulting guy you are crushing on.

    I wish you the best of luck.


  • You're just crushing. Don't degrade yourself!
    Leave him, and his girlfriend be.

    If he isn't with you, apparently, he doesn't want to be with you.
    Have respect and leave the couple alone.

    It's mean, and rude, to torment someone for your own gain.


  • Go out with a different guy. Take your mind off him. Two things could happen here:
    1. you actually forget about him.
    2. If he has problems with his girl and if deep down in his mind he cares a bit about you, he will come to you.


  • Obviously you need to back off - way off. Time to avoid him at all costs. He and his girlfriend are being mean to you and he doesn't deserve any of your attention at all. If you happen to see him in the hallway, duck and do not look his way at all. Don't play the fool like you're doing right now.







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